If you're looking for mesh style wheels, try to get some BBS RS with a lower offset and just have them refinished. I was going to refinish some 17s, but the final cost would've been way over my budget. However, if you want 16s, you can buy them for around $700 and spend another $300 to have them totally refinished. If you want to add bigger lips to them, then that's another story....
These guys are local to me... ask for Daniel at Memoryfab.com...
Here's a pretty set they just got with a really nice offset that should work...
5Hx114.3 @ 16x8 +24, Tires 205/45 includes
Memoryfab - BBS RS 